Are you tired of being scolded all over again by your parents because of your grades, relationships, or other problems? Get your paper and pens out for some listing on what to do. These steps shouldn't be painful, but there are always obstacles to change.
1.Never lie.
Lying may save you for now, but the truth always reveals itself sooner or later, getting you into more serious trouble. Note that "white lies" are still lies and can hurt as time goes by.
2.Do not hide your feelings or problems from your parents.
Parents are usually willing to speak about your feelings and help you solve any problems you may have. They only want to protect you. Don't feel intimidated because they're adults, after all, they've already been through most of what you're experiencing and came through okay.
3.Accept your mistakes and promise yourself to do better next time.
4.Don't cry over things like being busted by your girl/boyfriend or failing exams.
What you should do is learn and adapt from it and start a new life the next day. Focus your attention on studies and work, thinking twice before doing anything else.
5.Avoid excuses like,
"Please dad/mom, I'm going through adolescence/puberty and need time for myself too!" or false promises like, "I'm sorry, I swear to do better than last time because [explain reason here]". Those are just annoying words.
6.Make a list of your mistakes each week and try to change for the better.
Be sure you're true to your words and try to change for the better.
7.Enlist trusted friends to give you advice
help you study, and give you positive feedback when you do well.
8.Don't think you are foolish when you make mistakes.
The way you treat with them proves you are intelligent or not. We cannot know what will happen in the future and what things are laying down on our paths. But to make mistakes is the only way to learn.
9.Some people never make mistakes.
This is because they do not dare to do anything different from others. So please believe in yourself even when you make mistakes. At least you dared to be yourself.
10.There are some ways not to remake the mistakes others have done.
For example,you may ask for advice from your parents or teachers, or you can publish your plan in your blog and share your ideas with other friends. They can give you some advice.
Turning failure into success:
However the ability to learn from your mistakes isn’t an easy and sometimes it’s just an impossible task. That’s why here I provide you several tips that will help you to turn your failure into success.
1. Forgive yourself
Your inability to forgive both yourself and others creates an obstacle to your spiritual and intellectual growth. That’s why you need to forgive yourself for your failures and look at your mistakes only as at the opportunity to develop your personality and gain success.
2. Don’t be a perfectionist
If you live with the constant fear of making mistakes you will spend most of your life doing absolutely nothing. There is no harm in making mistakes, it’s just an integral part of your growth.
3. Stay calm
Don’t be too emotional! Stay calm in any life situation and it will let you analyze every problem soberly and make important decisions.
4. Focus on the reasons
Don’t concentrate on the mistake itself. Better focus on the reasons of this mistake, i.e. on the process that caused this failure.
5. Don’t pay attention to unfair criticism
Sometimes people are so sensitive about criticism that instead of learning something from it, they go on making more and more mistakes. Besides, if the criticism is absurd and completely unfair, you shouldn’t think that this is your fault. All great men were able to admit their mistakes, calmly react to reasonable and ignore unfair criticism.
6. Don’t be lazy
You can’t be lazy if you want to succeed. Only stupid people don’t make mistakes, because their whole life is an unchangeable stupidity. It’s very important to understand your mistakes in time and to try not to make them in future.
7. See your chances
Very often you go one way, though, there is another, and perhaps it is exactly what you need. However this can be understood only after many years. Later many life situations seem ridiculous and you recognize that there was an alternative, you just didn’t notice it for some reason.
8. Don’t waste your time trying to correct mistakes
Better admit your mistake, accept it and try to learn from it. If you do this it will be your great success.
9. Failures are your lessons
This should be your life principle. With the help of your own mistakes you can gain wisdom and accelerate your self-improvement. Mistakes with their close connection to taking risks are the basis of success.
10. Be optimistic
If something goes wrong don’t fall into despair. Everything’s temporary. Accept everything the way it is, use your sense of humor. Optimism is a powerful force, point it in the right direction and you will solve all your problems.
If you want to avoid your mistakes at all costs it will become a psychological barrier to taking risks. If you make a mistake, don’t hide in a shell. Remember that your success requires willpower, intelligence, determination, perseverance and… making mistakes. Think of it and use this chance to change your attitude toward success.
Tips:
*Do your best to ignore destructive criticism.
*Appreciate help from others, especially from family members.
*Never let comments from others about your mistakes depress you.
*Do not dwell on past mistakes, learn from them instead.
*Never repeat mistakes for any reason.
*Don't completely ignore the comments from others. Introspect and check out whether they are true. If yes, then improve yourself and if no, then ignore the comment.
*Every one makes mistakes at some point so don't think you are the only one.
Warnings:
*Watch out for getting careless and repeating your mistakes.
*Never disregard the first and best rule there is: do not lie.
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